Let's face it. When it comes to sex, there is a whole myriad
of issues and perhaps even insecurities that we as men would face in
the bedroom. But perhaps nothing comes close to the proverbial question
that most men have been asking for the longest time: how do I hold back
an early ejaculation during sex?
For a woman, the ability to
reach an orgasm quickly is almost a far-fetch fantasy. But for a guy,
ejaculating too fast during sex is the bane that can cause even the
strongest relationship to falter if the problem is not addressed. But
if you are not lasting beyond 4 minutes into sex, you are not alone.
You have almost 75% of the male population behind you! And you are
definitely not alone in wanting to find a solution so that you can last
longer and enjoy better sex.
But First, You Have To Possess The Right Mindset If You Want To Last Longer...
This
is fundamentally important. It is not just about using the latest
sprays, creams or ointments to give you superior stamina. It is about
adopting the right paradigm and attitude during sex that will separate
you from rookies who ejaculate from the word "GO" and real men who can
truly master their ejaculation almost on command.
Mind Over Body
We
all know that the mind controls the body, and not the other way round.
Guys who climax too soon allow their bodies to rule their minds. They
let the sexual stimulation get too intense to the point that they
cannot stem an impending orgasm, regardless of how they try to mentally
distract themselves. When you reach the "point of no return" during
sex, it is too late to rein in your ejaculation.
...And The Attitude You Should Adopt
Honesty
is the best policy even when it comes to sex. You don't have to feel
guilty that you are not lasting long enough for her. You just got to be
honest with her that you are climaxing too soon because she has turned
you on so much, and you would love to return her the favor. Women love
men who have the courage to face up to their sexual inadequacies.
Sex
doesn't have to end when you ejaculate! You can and SHOULD continue to
give her sexual stimulation. Your penis isn't exactly the only "tool"
you have. In fact, most women hardly get an orgasm through penetrative
sex. So go down on her if you like (women love oral sex) and continue
to romp her erogenous spots with your fingers. This exudes sexual
confidence on your part; it shows you are in control, and this turns
women on!
Believe me, having confidence is that the first crucial
step to curing premature ejaculation and lasting longer in bed. Be
bold, and take that first step!
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